Success isn’t a yes/no, right/wrong achievement. It can’t be attained by hard work alone. Many people operating from the “just work harder” school of thought have tried and failed. So, what really is necessary to achieve success in any endeavor you undertake?
My own life journey and my coach training have helped me get conscious about nine distinct elements of success. I share them as the beginning of an on-going conversation I plan to have with you in future blog posts.
- Self-knowledge: know your passions, your strengths, your needs and values, the areas where you struggle, what you avoid.
- Keep the big goal top of mind: identify what matters most and keep it conscious as you navigate through your days.
- Positive focus: look for the good in every experience, even challenging ones. What you focus on you attract more of.
- Self-care: good sleep, regular exercise, good hydration, good nutrition create the conditions for the best brain power, the best attitudes.
- Good boundaries: learn to say no, avoid taking on too much, giving too much to others to your own detriment.
- Continuous learning: look for the lessons. Learn from every situation, especially challenging ones.
- Support: get help in areas where you struggle, areas you hate, areas you avoid.
- Letting go: do your part and let go. You are responsible for the effort, not the outcome.
- Balance: avoid extremes — all work, no play; all play, no work. Avoid black and white thinking and engaging. Go for gray. Find a balance.
Working with these elements is part of the program I offer coaching clients. They can become the building blocks for consciously living an empowered life of your choosing. Instead of just floating down the river of life at the whim and mercy of events and those around you, consider these elements to be strong trees on the bank of the river. They can help shape your perspectives and guide your thoughts and feelings to personal and professional success.
In upcoming blog posts I will be writing about each of these elements in more detail. Stay tuned!